Trip to Boston

I took Jaron to Boston for his yearly clinic visit Thursday and of course Justus(still nursing) went too. It wasn't the easist thing to do with 2 boys and a double stroller and overnight bags, without my husband but I did it. Chris had to stay here with Jacob and Jonah because school had already started. So even though the stoller and the boys and all our stuff weighed approx 100 lbs. I pushed it all over the airports and hospital and across the street to the hotel. And now I feel like I've been mountain climbing.

These pictures are not in order because I cannot get blogger to cooperate.
Peepaw picked us up at the airport and after TONS of traffic and a little confusion with the directions we finally made it to the hospital and to the radiology department just one minute before Jaron's appointment. He had a videoflouroscopy done. He had to talk in the xray machine and they also put barium in his nose and watched him talk again to see if it went into his nose.
  
That appointment only took 15 minutes so we had the rest of the night to recover from our plane ride and clinic was on Friday. So we stopped in the CVS inside the hospital for some snacks and went to McDonalds for a late lunch. Then went back to our room with Peepaw and Barbara to relax.

I gave the boys a bath and we ordered a PB&J with the crust cut off from room service at 7:30pm at night because Jaron was hungry. So we got to bed by 9:30 and woke up at 7am. I got a shower and we went down for our breakfast. Jaron's appointment wasn't until 1:30pm but we thought we might be able to get in early so I called with no answer so I packed up our stuff and we checked out of the hotel at 10:00. After a lot of walking with the 100 lb stroller back to the hospital in and out of elevators we made it to the clinic and they said the doctors don't arrive until 12:30 so we had some time to kill. So I took them to the "Family Center" to play with some toys and watch a movie. Then we had some lunch and headed back to the clinic by 12:30pm.

We saw the audiologist first back on the elevator (with the giant cadillac stroller) to the booth for his hearing test. He did great and his ears are perfect.

Back to the clinic and we were sent down to the basement for pictures.

Back to the clinic then we were taken to the dental department for xrays.

Then back to the clinic and we were taken back to see the speech pathologist and she had him talk a lot and asked lots of questions and said she determined he does NOT need the p-flap surgery to extend his palate. He also does not need any speech therapy either.

Then back out the waiting room and then we're called in to see Dr. Mulliken. Jaron's surgeon. He is so thorough and we love him. He is VERY pleased with Jaron's nose and the fact that it has not widened at all! He was bragging to his fellows about Jaron's cupid's bow (dip in his top lip). He meaured and made marks on Jaron with a green pen and Jaron just laid there perfectly still so cooperative. There were others in the room training and working with him. But I just wanted a picture of him working with Jaron. He's an artist really and Jaron is his masterpiece. He said Jaron's nose is the same width of an average white male without a cleft.

We talked about his new baby and how she is also 8 months like my son Justus. He said she sleeps through the night and when I asked him how does he like being a parent he said "it's interesting".

What was most exciting to hear is how great his scars are doing. Jaron's scars have not stretched at all. And it's because his premaxilla (front gums) are set back into his mouth a little. That is also why his nose has not widened. And the reason it's set back is because we started out wearing the NAM in atlanta and the doctor pushed his premaxilla back into his mouth sideways and after 17 weeks at NYU and the NAM could not turn it back straight. So we met Dr. Mulliken and the first thing he said was "he needs a premaxillary osteotomy" (straighten the front gums out). So he pushed other children's surgeries back to fit Jaron in at 8 months old to do that first surgery and closed his palate at the same time. And because of that Jaron's scars have not stretched as he has grown like most kids do. So Mulliken was very pleased to say the least. He told his fellow to send us down for some 3D pictures of Jaron puckering.

So back to the waiting room and I proceeded to nurse the fussy baby all the while watching the clock because my flight was at 6pm and was already 3:30 at this point. And just as he started nursing they came to get me for his 3D pictures so I asked him to push the stroller while I nursed and walked down there.

I asked him (Dr. David Kim-fellow) how long did he think Dr. Mulliken would be working and he said Mulliken told him about 6-8 more years. I told him to pay close attention because he is the best.

So we got the pictures and back to the waiting room and then we're called back by the dentist last doctor for the day. I made it clear my flight was at 6 so we hurried things along they measured his mouth and told me his next surgery is at 9 years old for the bone graft. Bone from his hip placed in his gums where the cleft was. And possible braces before then. I asked one of the nurses to call a cab for me and we ran down to the lobby to pick up the carseat and out the front door just as the cab pulled up. We made it to the airport and still had an hour to get dinner and get through security.

Thank God we made it home safely. My whole body is aching from all that walking while pushing the giant stroller but it was all worth it and I would do it all again if I had to.







The boys were watching out the window for our airplane to arrive. So anxious to get back home to their brothers and daddy.

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We spent some time in the Hospital's Family Center with tons of toys, books and movies. Jaron was feeding the dinosaurs.
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The captain let Jaron tryout the front seat!


This was taken on the way to Boston. He was so anxious to land after we had only been in the air 5 minutes. So we played some games to keep him occupied. The baby was keeping me plenty busy.
This neat thing is in the lobby of the children's hospital with balls falling and sliding up and down. The kids love it!
This is where they took the 3D pictures.

Best Friends

 We had a yardsale last weekend so we had a lot of bins like this one out of the attic and Jaron and Jonah loved to play in them. So they got their notebooks and pens and went down the hall and sat in the bin. They were pretending to work at a store. I walked up and Jonah said "Can I help you?"
 Jacob loves Justus and picks him all the time. I was so worried he was going to drop him but the last few days I have been watching him and he does really good holding him so I try not to fuss at him. I just ask him to sit down with him and not walk around.
 He said "Mommy I think I'm ready to feed Justus"
So I pumped a bottle for him and Jacob fed him.....so sweet.

TEETHING!!!

Justus got those first two bottom teeth in without a problem. But he has been so fussy lately and I could not figure out what was wrong. Keeping in mind our other boys' history I always think it could be an ear infection. So I took him to the doctor the other day and she said his ears are perfect. I told her I thought his two top teeth are trying to come in and she said that must be it. So my happy little baby isn't quite as happy since we are still waiting on those teeth. And I dread it because it means my nursing days are almost over. I will continue to pump for him until he is one year old but nursing and baby teeth are not a good combination!
Our boys usually have cereal or oatmeal for breakfast but occassionally I'll make blueberry muffins and they LOVE them! So now that Justus is very mobile in his walker he is all over the kitchen (and our toes) and he found the oven window. Jonah was showing him the muffins.

My last one...

Well we are pretty sure Justus is going to be our last baby so I'm soaking in every moment. He is still nursing. I've tried feeding him babyfood a few times but he just gags A LOT and pukes it up. So he's not ready for the texture. I don't want to force him. I know he is getting all he needs from my milk. He's approx 21 lbs. now and just about to crawl. He rolls all over the house and is sitting up great! He has 2 teeth on the bottom and might have 2 top teeth very soon. He's not really on a set sleep schedule. Or a set feeding schedule. I pump sometimes for him if we're going somewhere. But most of the time I nurse him at home....whenever he wants to. Justus Andrew....my baby....I love him so much words cannot even explain it. He's so squishy and chunky and everywhere we go someone has to pinch his fat thighs. I wish he could stay this little forever.

All Smiles.....almost

The boys are all dressed up for church and Jonah refused to get in the picture.
I did get some cute ones of Jacob, Jaron & Justus.
and this is where Jonah sat


Football & Forts

Jacob wanted to play football so he made his "line of scrimage" with two golf clubs.
Then Jonah joined in the fun!

Trying to make a fort with pillows and 3 little brothers isn't always easy but with a little determination anything is possible.

Cool Treats

The boys were eating popsicles and Daddy thought Justus might want to taste his (it might have something to do with the way Justus was watching Chris eat his popsicle)
So he let him have a quick lick of it...

In our bubble...

there are no bad guys
no guns
no drugs
no "bad drinks"
no smoking
no ugly words
we are comfortable and our boys are safe with us.
in our bubble...
we can be ourselves
we lounge in our pjs all day
we are safe...

But its when we step outside our bubble....
it can be scary
as a mother I want to keep my boys "under my wing"
I can't stand the thought of something happening to them on the bus or at school
We can pray for God to protect them
but we cannot always hide the sinfulness of the world
they have to be exposed eventually
but it's our responsibility to
"train up a child in the way he should go
and when he is old he will not depart from it"
Proverbs 22:6

***My prayer is "God help me to be a good trainer"

Random Thoughts...

Jaron wants to know "what's taking so long for school?" 24 more days!
I am addicted to a new "Gardens of Time" game on facebook.
Chris eats a large canister of raisins in just a few days.
Jacob discovered he loves frozen "gogurt"
Justus has 2 teeth that came in almost exactly the same time.
Jonah is definately ~ completely potty trained.
It's raining here today and much cooler than it has been.
Our microwave imploded!
I need to go to the dentist.
Jacob needs to go to the dentist.
Chris's truck isn't acting right.
The devil is trying to discourage us...but God is still in control.

Just a swingin'

Playing outside is so much fun! Justus loved the swing. His toes were dragging the ground a little so he got dirty~for the first time.

Library Love

The boys have been participating in the summer reading program at the library so we were there the other day and I just had to get a picture of this, That boy bear could not help himself.

I'll Fly Away

Jonah loves to sing in the car and I had to capture the moment with my cell phone so the video quality isn't great. ENJOY!

Eat Mor Chikin

Oh the things we will do for free food! We got an email about Chic Fil A's "Cow Appreciation Day" so we decided to do it. It was fun for the boys.

And Justus wanted to join in the fun too!

So he is not ready for chicken but he did enjoy the wooden (toy) chicken leg I let him chew on.